Welcome back to Part 2 (of 3), “Important Truths I’ve Learned”. To read Part 1, please click or tap HERE.
In each entry, I have been listing five valuable lessons which the Lord has taught me over the years. Again, I certainly have not learned everything there is to life, but I hope the following insights will help and inspire you in some way. The truths below are listed in random order.
1.) Detach. Unplug. Unwind. This must be done often and without guilt in order to refresh and renew the mind, body, and spirit, as a whole. This is not an excuse for laziness. However, even God rested on the seventh day after He had created the world. (see Gen. 2:3). Also, think of the flowers – they are dormant for a season in order that they may bloom in the proper season. Furthermore, we must remember that Jesus would pull away from the crowds to pray alone. (see Luke 5:16). There is something amiss if we don’t allow time to be alone with our Savior. Sure, it’s fine to worship with others, but there also comes a time when we need to get quiet and alone before the Lord… alone, in our prayer closet. (see Matt. 6:6). Some people say they “don’t have time” but such people will make time to be alone to shower or bathe. If it is important enough, we can make time and make a way for it to happen. “Our religious activities should be ordered in such a way as to have plenty of time for the cultivation of the fruits of solitude and silence” (A.W. Tozer).
2.) Don’t worry what other people think of you. As long as you are pleasing God, that’s all that matters. Oftentimes, Christians are viewed by sinners as “peculiar,” “strange”, “different”… the list goes on and on. But remember, Jesus was hated without a cause … and we are not greater than our Lord. If they hated Him, they will hate us also, as John 15 so plainly states (Also see John 15:25, James 4:4, and Matt. 10:22). But they hate us because we are not “one of them”… we are a new creation in Christ Jesus. Never feel that you must impress the world in order to have friends. Rest assured, you will never be friendless or comfortless as long as you have Jesus. He will care for you and bear you, even into your graying years (see Is. 46:4). When you come to spiritual maturity, the fight to “remain popular” dies and the drive to please God takes over. “Humble yourself and cease to care what men think. A meek man is not a human mouse afflicted with a sense of his own inferiority. Rather, he has stopped being fooled about himself. He knows well that the world will never see him as God sees him and he has stopped caring. He has obtained a place of soul rest. The old struggle to defend himself is over” (A.W. Tozer).
3.) If you’re a God-seeking Christian, never ever worry about doing without the necessities of life. Oftentimes, many of us find ourselves struggling financially to make ends meet. Sometimes, times get so rough that we may begin to wonder if we will be able to put food on the table or clothes on our back. But we can be confident in knowing that our Lord cares for us. Several verses in the latter part of Matthew, chapter 6, remind us not to worry about such things. Verses 31-33 state: “Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed? (For after all these things do the Gentiles seek:) for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things. But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.” The Psalmist put it wonderfully when he said, “I have been young, and now am old; yet have I not seen the righteous forsaken, nor his seed begging bread.“
4.) When praying and not getting the results you want, always adopt the idea, “Maybe God sees something which I can’t see.” Our Heavenly Father knows best. His Will, His timing, His reasons are for our own good. His ways our higher than our ways and His thoughts are higher than ours (see Is. 55:9). Even in the Lord’s Prayer, we are instructed to pray for His Will to be done (see Matt. 6:10). Before Jesus’ crucifixion, He fell on His face and prayed, “O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me. Nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt.“ I once heard a story that went like this: “A man’s wife died and left him alone to raise their children. He sold everything he had in order to buy a cart and a horse with which he would haul things for people. But his horse ran away. Everybody came and said “What a tragedy.” But the man said, “Maybe it was a tragedy. But maybe it was a blessing.” A few days later his horse came back trailed by a bunch of wild horses.The towns people came to him and said, “You were right. It was a blessing and not a tragedy.” But he said, “Maybe it was a blessing. But it might be a tragedy.” His son was breaking one of the wild horses and the horse fell on him and crushed his leg. Now the people said, “You were right. This wasn’t a blessing. It was a tragedy.” He said, “Who knows….” About that time, the government agents came and took off all the young men from that town to fight in the war, but the man’s son could not go because of his shattered leg. How do we know in our lives whether something painful is a tragedy or a blessing?” Remember Romans 8:28… “And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.“
5.) Take the covenant of marriage seriously and make sure of who you are marrying. In the past, I have done extensive research on the topic of marriage, divorce, and remarriage. Please refer to my previous blogs on divorce (linked HERE) and remarriage (linked HERE). I would highly encourage everyone to read these blogs, but suffice it to say that marriage is a serious covenant. Nonetheless, I have heard of instances where there is a Christian wife and (what she thought was) a Christian husband. Later, she finds out he was never truly converted. So while I acknowledge that this can occur, we must do all that is within our power to make certain of who we are marrying and that we have no doubts within, should you choose to marry. Also, I would refer those courting/dating to my previous post HERE.
Again, I hope this was helpful in some way. My final entry (Part 3) will be posted next month, so be sure to check back then. You can also Follow this blog so you don’t miss future entries. God bless each of you!
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